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A Bar Mitzvah Planned In 30 Days
May 12th, 2019

A Bar Mitzvah Planned In 30 Days

Miles Pilchik’s Bar Mitzvah was planned in 30 days. Yes, 30 days! The Pilchik’s of New York City received their Bar Mitzvah date more than a year ago, but the only thing they planned in advance was the Havdalah service in the main sanctuary at Temple Emanu-el. Thirty days before the big day, mom Beth’s very detail oriented friend, Nancy, pushed her to finally start planning the reception.

The goal? To make sure this was a Bar Mitzvah that suited Miles, a gamer who likes having fun with his friends, while taking the entire family’s needs into consideration. Miles’ younger brother, Matthew, has Autism, so while the day was 100% about the Bar Mitzvah boy, making sure Matthew would be comfortable was key. That’s how Miles’ Bowl Mitzvah was conceived. Miles loves to bowl and Bowlmor Lanes in Times Square has bowling and an arcade in house, which they knew would work for Matthew.

To ensure Matthew’s comfort, the family hired a 1:1 ABA therapist to work with him the entire day. His school, the Manhattan Children’s Center, played an important role preparing him for the celebration. They created a social story detailing everything that would happen that day, and during OT at school, Matthew practiced putting on his suit and getting comfortable. 

Beth, a small business marketing and PR consultant, also made a point to hire other small businesses to help execute the big day. “It’s more than possible to plan and execute an amazing Bar Mitzvah in 30 days,” says mom, Beth. “We had everything you can imagine at our Bar Mitzvah and the kids and parents had fun!”

The photographer for this event was Ivan Piedra Photography. A complete vendor list follows at the end of this Spotlight.

Service

Fun & Games

Exit Sweets & Treats

Mitzvah Advice

“Our goal was to have a great party our entire family would enjoy,” says mom Beth. “Sometimes people get lost in the planning and the Bar Mitzvah becomes ‘work’ instead of ‘fun,’ and it doesn’t have to be. As long as you make the day/night about your child and his/her needs and likes, it will be great!”

In terms of preparing a child with Autism for the celebration, Beth says, “My advice is prepare and expect the unexpected. Matthew had a meltdown outside the sanctuary. His therapist took care of it. To get him out of hit, he realized he didn’t want to miss Miles’ passing of the Torah. He arrived right on cue. Our goal was to embrace all while recognizing Miles’ hard work.”

Mitzvah Project

Miles chose to have a Video Game-A-Thon where all proceeds would benefit his brother Matthew’s school, Manhattan Children’s Center, for children with autism spectrum disorder. MCC is in need of a new, larger location to accommodate more students. For every dollar Miles raised for MCC, he would be able to play video games. To date Miles has helped raise more than $2000 for the school.

Vendor Directory

The following vendors helped to pull off Miles’ 30 Day Mitzvah. If you contact them, please let them know you read about their services on Mitzvah Market.

Venue/Arcade: Bowlmor Lanes, 212-680-0012
Event Planner: Mom and family friend Nancy Held
Day-Of Coordinating/Flowers: The Finer Details, Cheryl Reiner, 201-906-9327
Music/DJ: Good Times Productions, Anthony Gelo, 718-926-5143
MC: RTJ Entertainment, Robert Taylor Jr., 917-670-6602
Photographer/Photo Booth: Ivan Piedra Photography/Air Graphics Entertainment, 973-247-1844
Montage: Images4Ever, 973-945-0573 
Decor: Balloon Kings, 646-669-8361 (bowling pin balloons); Love, Laura Gifts, 212-744-0754 (napkins, staff logo t-shirts); VistaPrint, 1-866-614-8002 (pillows)
Favors: Black Sheep Branding Solutions, Aly Taff, 516-993-3870 (bowling socks); Jade Promotional Marketing, Elaina Durso, 914-393-4286 (logo sweatshirts); Promotique by Vistaprint, 1-866-891-3156 (drawstring bags)
Bowling & Game prizes: Five Below, 1-844-452-3569
Invitations: PaperlessPost.com
Candy Bar: Economy Candy, 212-254-1531
Mom’s Service Dress/Bowling outfit/Custom Necklaces: Ted Baker, Bloomingdales & Nordstrom Rack; Designs by Audrey, 917-703-4971 (necklaces)
Suits: Men’s Warehouse
Hair/Makeup: Blu Bocker, 646-678-5316 (hair); Beautini, 212-235-7060 (makeup)
Transportation: Great American Charters, Michael Saburro, 917-946-1723

 

 

Gold Vibes: Inspired by Bat Mitzvah Girl with a Heart of Gold
May 5th, 2019

Gold Vibes: Inspired by Bat Mitzvah Girl with a Heart of Gold

Everyone had Gold Vibes at Lizzie Gold’s Bat Mitzvah. Known for her sweet disposition, the “Heart of Gold” theme was an easy choice for Lizzie and her family. This theme was first introduced on the RSVP cards, where guests indicated if they would “love” to attend or were “broken-hearted” to miss the celebration. Following a Havdalah service, the Gold’s celebrated with family and friends at Temple Or Elohim in Jericho, NY. The ballroom was transformed with candlelight and a Tiffany Blue and gold color scheme. Fun taglines- Gold Vibes, Life is Good- were designed by The Coolest Giveaways and featured throughout the decor and signage. Stepmom Colette tells Mitzvah Market there were “Gold Vibes in the room with the kids, our friends and our family dancing all night long!” 

Photo (L-R): sister Ryan, brother William, dad Oren, Bat Mitzvah girl Lizzie, stepmom Colette and brother Wesley. The photographer for this event was Leo Vatkin Photography and Video. A complete vendor list follows at the end of this Spotlight.

Havdalah Service

Gold Vibes

Golden Moments

Logos

Mitzvah Advice

 “This was our third family Mitzvah in a short time, so we have become experts,” says stepmom, Colette, who planned the entire event. “The best advice I can give is to ask others to share their positive experiences with which vendors they used. Bar and Bat Mitzvah planning groups on Facebook are an amazing resource. I found most of my vendors from hearing other family’s reviews. Then meet the vendors you are considering, and make sure you feel comfortable with them because you will need to have a lot of communication in planning your child’s Mitzvah celebration.” She adds, “try not to get caught up in the stress of event planning. There are a lot of details to consider, which can become very stressful, but the celebration will be over in the blink of an eye. None of the guests, or your child, will remember what shade of cocktail napkins you chose. They will remember the love and joy you all felt celebrating your child’s special day.” 

Mitzvah Project

Lizzie collected new and gently used socks as her Mitzvah project to donate to organizations that provide socks for men, women, and children who are homeless. Lizzie learned about how socks are one of the most needed items of clothing, through the organization Knock Knock Give a Sock. Lizzie’s family and friends generously donated hundreds of pairs of socks. She collected eight giant bags filled with socks that everyone brought to her home, or shipped from Amazon. Lizzie posted on her social media pages to let friends know about her Mitzvah project, and even told her teachers about it.

Vendor Directory

Venue/Cake: Temple Or Elohim, Hasson Caterers, Shawn Farber 516-523-0191
Party Planner: Stepmom Colette
Music/MC/DJ: Maximum Entertainment, DJ Eddie, MC Evan, Co-MC owner Joe, 516-826-8632
Photographer/Videographer: Leo Vatkin, 914-497-5730
Decor: Lighter Than Air, Artie 516-933-3210
Photo Booth: Le Selfie Booth, 917-856-8912
Favors/Logos: The Coolest Giveaways, Sue and the TCG Team, 516-439-4303
Mermaid Pillows: Lovekess Clothing, 516-382-8539
Invitations: Written and Wrapped, Tracey Cooper, 516-375-8851
Montage: Elissa Owens Productions, 617-480-4935
Dresses: Ask Alice, 516-921-2464 (Lizzie and Ryan); Runway Couture (Colette), 516-308-4639
Alterations: Nedy’s Alterations, 516-359-9600
Custom Converse Sneakers: TheeQueenOfBling, Etsy
Suits: Kenny’s Men’s and Boys Wear, 516-921-2660 (Wesley and William)
Hair/Makeup: Raquel of Tom Salon in Merrick (makeup), 516-807-0517; Christina Speciale (hair), 516-589-3779

 

Bar and Bat Mitzvah Planning: Research is Everything!
April 28th, 2019

Bar and Bat Mitzvah Planning: Research is Everything!

Research is key when it comes to planning your child’s Bar or Bat Mitzvah. While preparing for daughter Charlotte’s Bat Mitzvah, mom Frances Roth says she networked with other parents, combed through Facebook groups and attended Mitzvah Market’s own Celebrate! Showcase. In the end, she chose vendors who took the time to understand her goals and who could make her family’s vision a reality.

Roth also talked with family, friends, even co-workers while planning the event. Husband Ed came up with the theme and tagline for the event: Let’s Go CRazy, a play on Charlotte’s initials CR. “Ed was very involved,” says Frances. “Probably more than most husbands want to be.” A cousin created the centerpiece logo in the style of America’s Got Talent (one of Charlotte’s favorite shows), and a co-worker introduced Frances to the nonprofit which produced the unique party favors. 

The photographer for this event was Ellen Wolff Photography and the venue was The Fox Hollow in Woodbury, NY. A complete list of vendors follows at the end of this Spotlight.

Service

Reception

Favors with a Purpose

Mitzvah Advice

“Talk to people who have hosted Bar/Bat Mitzvahs, attend the [Celebrate!] Mitzvah Market Showcase, research posts in moms’ Facebook groups and ask a lot of questions,” says mom Frances who adds, “we met Todd Yahney, our DJ, at the Celebrate! Showcase.” Roth found out about dress boutique 2 B Seen from her sister-in-law but was reassured when she saw their listing on MitzvahMarket.com. “It was confirmation that this is what they do,” she says. “I did several searches for Long Island Bat Mitzvah photographers and Ellen Wolff came up in a search and I loved the photos on her website.”

Vendor Directory

The following vendors helped to make Charlotte’s celebration a success. If you contact them, please tell them you read about their services on Mitzvah Market.

Venue: The Fox Hollow, 516-921-1415
Entertainment/DJ/MC/Photo Booth/Karaoke/Games/Lounge Furniture: Todd Yahney Events, 516-781-4700
Decor/Centerpieces: Lighter Than Air Events, Artie, 516-933-3210
Invitations: Invitation House, Debbi Lee, 516-681-0664
Dresses: 2 B Seen, 516-921-5777

Photographer: Ellen Wolff Photography, 516-551-1745
Favors: Spectrum Designs, Stefanie, 516-767-7187 (beach towels), AnyPromo.com, 877-368-5678 (bags, mints)
Hair/Nails: Anthony DeFranco Salon, 516-588-0055

 

 

Creative New Ways to Brand Your Bar or Bat Mitzvah Celebration
April 15th, 2019

Creative New Ways to Brand Your Bar or Bat Mitzvah Celebration

Bar Mitzvah and Bat Mitzvah logos are being used on all aspects of party details! Creative Bar and Bat Mitzvah vendors are always looking for new ways to brand Bar and Bat Mitzvah celebrations. From logo’d bathroom mirrors (like the one above by FabuDesigns.com) to custom chair wraps, take a look at the latest in party branding!

Branded Chair Drops

Bathroom Clings

Digital Wallpaper

Seating Charts, Place Cards & More

Dressed Up Doors

Dance Floor Decor

Centerpieces, Menus, Napkins & Sign-In Boards

Cakes & Sweet Treats

Custom Sneakers

 

Digital “Wallpaper” Will Transform Your Bar Bat Mitzvah
April 7th, 2019

Digital “Wallpaper” Will Transform Your Bar Bat Mitzvah

Elevate Event Lounge, the popular all inclusive Bar Bat Mitzvah venue in Yorktown Heights, New York, is now offering digital “wallpaper” to transform your event. Amazing new technology gives you the ability to cover 800 square feet of wall space with your personalized virtual graphics, images, logos and more! This is just the latest addition to Elevate’s full service approach. With a state of the art sound system, special effects lighting and interactive photo ops, Elevate’s experienced team will bring your Bar Bat Mitzvah theme/vision to life!

For a fresh new way to add decor to your Mitzvah celebration, check out Elevate’s digital wallpaper below:

To learn more about Elevate Event Lounge, visit their Extended Profile Page in our Vendor Directory.

 

Make a Weekend of Your Bar Bat Mitzvah at the Historic Tarrytown House
March 31st, 2019

Make a Weekend of Your Bar Bat Mitzvah at the Historic Tarrytown House

If you’re looking to make your Bar or Bat Mitzvah a weekend-long affair, check out the Tarrytown House Estate on the Hudson, located just 25 miles north of New York City. The historic estate, set on 26 acres, offers multiple venues to host your Bar or Bat Mitzvah service, party, Friday night Shabbat dinner, Sunday morning brunch and everything in between. With 212 guest rooms and suites, you have the opportunity to create a weekend your guests will never forget. From planning the menu to arranging entertainment, Tarrytown House’s experienced team will take care of everything!

Read on to learn more about the Tarrytown House Estate on the Hudson and to see images of their beautiful location.

Old World Elegance, Modern Amenities

 
For more information about Tarrytown House check out their extended profile page in our Vendor Directory.
 
Bat Mitzvah Sealed with a Kiss: SWak
March 31st, 2019

Bat Mitzvah Sealed with a Kiss: SWak

Samantha Waxer’s Bat Mitzvah was (literally!) Sealed With a Kiss! Using her initials, S.W., and her love of metallic colors – think silver, gold and rose gold – as a jumping off point, her Bat Mitzvah celebration was filled with beautiful backdrops, fun logos, unbelievable SWag, fireworks and a surprise boy band performance.

After leading a Havdalah service at Temple Avodah in Oceanside, NY, Samantha and her family celebrated with a party that kept guests on their feet all night long.

Photo above (L-R): dad Adam, Bat Mitzvah girl Samantha, brother Brody and mom Elizabeth. The photographer for this event was Denis Leon. A complete list of vendors follows at the end of this Spotlight.

SWak: Sealed with a Kiss

One SWeet Party

Bat Mitzvah Decor

 Intro Video

Incredible SWag

SWeet Goodbye

Highlight Video

Mitzvah Advice

“Try and be as organized as possible and plan ahead!,” says mom, Elizabeth. “There is so much planning that goes into it, but you should not be stressed. Enjoy the process since the night flies by so quickly! Take a moment that night to really take it all in!”

Mitzvah Project

Samantha’s dad works at St. Mary’s Healthcare System for Children and she volunteers her time to work with some of the St. Mary’s kids who have special needs. She experienced first hand the love and compassion that the wonderful staff and volunteers provide to these children. Therefore, Samantha thought it would be a great opportunity for her Mitzvah Project to sponsor a team (“Samantha’s Mitzvah Crew”) and help raise funds and awareness to help children with special needs at the annual walk for St. Mary’s Kids, which was held on Sunday, April 29th, at Crocheron Park in Bayside, NY. Samantha’s Mitzvah Crew raised over $3,000 to help support valuable programs and services for 2,000 children and their families in St. Mary’s care throughout the New York Metropolitan region.

Vendor Directory

Venue: Temple Avodah/Kombert Caterers, 516-678-6161
Photo Booth/Photo Albums/Sticker Booth/Makeup Booth: Simon Elliot Events 516-586-6822
Event Planner: Elizabeth Waxer (mom), 516-695-5966
Entertainment/Music/MC: Geo Events, Geo, 800-670-0462
Flowers/Decor: Artistry in Flowers, 516-626-7673
Photographer: Dennis Leon, 917-208-1777
Videographer: Reel Life Cinematography, 914-355-3360
Favors: Press House NY (dance floor giveaways, boys’ favors), 646-236-5931; A Bling Affair (girls’ sweat shirt favors, custom logo SAM patches and bling custom SWak appliqués), 917-992-1175
Invitations/Napkins/Lip Gloss/Phone Wallets/Drawstring Bags/All Bottles: Written and Wrapped, 516-375-8851
Cake: Cakes with Character, 516-935-6924
Sign-In Board: That One Special Touch, Randi Lehman, 516-496-1025
Logo Acrylic Trays: Precious Scripts, Randi Nadel/Heather Seff, 917-841-3359
Custom Pillows: Simply Chill Creations, Melissa, 646-285-3775‬
Indoor Fireworks: Dj Frontboard & Luna Decor, 718-259-9595
Custom Nail Swag: Nail Printing Events, 732-598-9019
R&B
Band: The YRS, @the.yrs
Dresses: Ask Alice (Samantha), 516-921-2464 and Filly’s (mom), 516-739-9090
Suits: Kenny’s Mens & Boys Wear, 516-921-2660
Hair: New York Cut, Valentina, 631-824-6879
Makeup: Blue Mercury Manhasset, Dayna, 516-627-3777

Bar Bat Mitzvah Themes: One Clever Tagline Or Logo Is All You Need
March 24th, 2019

Bar Bat Mitzvah Themes: One Clever Tagline Or Logo Is All You Need

Logos and taglines can tie together a Bar Mitzvah or Bat Mitzvah child’s diverse interests and activities. Event planner Melisa Imberman of The Event of a Lifetime, Inc. shares how a clever logo/tagline combination was the perfect way to capture Bat Mitzvah girl Emma’s many loves. “Utilizing a lowercase “e” for Emma, we created a logo with a spin on the classic yin and yang symbol to represent all sides of Emma’s personality. I worked closely with Emma and her mom to create a secondary tagline, “be yourself” which incorporated the same “e,” and we tied the whole theme together with the branding “essentially emma.” 

The branding, along with the colors ice blue and white, was used on everything from pillows and signage to party swag and desserts at the event, which was held at The Tuxedo Club in Tuxedo Park, NY. Centerpieces at each table showcased Emma’s interests with photos and images of her favorite things including soccer, dance, cooking, the Yankees, Camp Romaca, Uruguay (where her mom is from) and more. 

The photographer for this event was Hi Tech Photography.

Essentially Emma

We thank Melisa Imberman for sharing these great ideas with us. To learn more about The Event Of A Lifetime, visit their extended profile page in our Vendor Directory.

Event Planner Shares Her Daughter’s Showstopping Bat Mitzvah
March 17th, 2019

Event Planner Shares Her Daughter’s Showstopping Bat Mitzvah

The expectations were high for Gabi Ivler’s Bat Mitzvah celebration… and the Ivlers did not disappoint! From a “live drink wall” and fire eaters, to break dancers and a metallic 3-D balloon wall, this party was a delight for the senses. After a private service at Congregation Agudath Israel in Caldwell, New Jersey, Gabi was joined by family and friends at the Crystal Plaza in Livingston.

Gabi’s mom, Lisa, is the owner of Lisa Ivler Events, an event production company in the New York Tri-State area. Like all Lisa Ivler Events, Gabi’s Bat Mitzvah was filled with moments that created an original and captivating guest experience. “Special touches of theatrics that make your heart skip a beat,” are Lisa’s goal.

While Lisa was able to call on many of her go-to vendors for the celebration, she tells Mitzvah Market she didn’t anticipate how different it would be to plan her own child’s Mitzvah celebration. “I plan other people’s parties a few times a month and I don’t stress. When it came to my own party, I was beyond stressed!” Lisa, who recommends (now more than before!) hiring a planner or day-of coordinator, shares her Mitzvah planning advice at the end of this Spotlight.

Photo above (L-R): sister Brooke, dad Jeff, Bat Mitzvah girl Gabi, mom Lisa and brother Josh. The photographer for this event was Visionary Artists. A complete list of vendors is at the end of this spotlight.

Bat Mitzvah Service

Dramatic Design

Brilliant Branding

Major WOW Moments

Special Touches

Mitzvah Advice

“My advice to anyone planning a Bar or Bat Mitzvah celebration for their child? Hire an event planner or a day-of coordinator!” says mom Lisa, who is the owner of Lisa Ivler Events. “Even for my own daughter’s party, I enlisted the help of another planner. There are always last-minute details that need attention in the hours leading up to a party, especially when the party is just about to begin! I never would have been able to relax without a planner on-site that day. So, my advice is to hire a planner, relax, and feel like a guest at your own party!”

Mitzvah Project

Gabi volunteers at the family’s temple working with three and four year olds on a weekly basis.

Vendor Directory

The following vendors helped to make Gabi’s Bar Mitzvah a night to remember. If you contact them, please let them know you read about their services on Mitzvah Market.

Venue: Crystal Plaza, 973-992-8100
Event Planning/Invitations/Extra Entertainment/Break Dancers/Sign-In Board/Give Aways: Lisa Ivler Events, 973-826-2108
Decor/Floral: Debbie’s Designs, 973-696-7930
Branding/Logos: Fabu Designs, 312-513-1698
Music/DJ/Electric Violinist/Games: Total Entertainment, MC Robby, DJ Sal Domingo, 201-894-0055
Magician: The Magic of David Corsaro, 973-699-2723
Photographer: Visionary Artists, 908-770-0554
Videographer: Mark Yelen, 973-610-4746
Favors: Let’s Go Invite, 973-685-4547
Balloon Wall: Balloon Design Studio, 908-295-1840
Photo Booth/Games/Airbrush Tattoos: Royal Entertainment, 973-826-7011
Strolling Candy Bar: iCandy Entertainment, 973-826-2108
Dresses: All About the Dress, 914-219-5300

Bar Mitzvah Life: Better On The Ice
March 10th, 2019

Bar Mitzvah Life: Better On The Ice

Life is Better on the Ice for Bar Mitzvah boy Jordan Freund. An avid ice hockey player since age seven, Jordan’s Bar Mitzvah theme brought to life his favorite aspects of the game. From a hockey rink dance floor, complete with penalty boxes, to NHL ticket place cards and hockey jerseys galore, this party had it all. Following a service at Community Synagogue of Rye in Rye, New York, Jordan’s guests gathered at LIFE, the place to be in Ardsley, New York where they were treated to a night of non-stop action on and off the dance floor. 

Photo above (L-R): sister Brooke, mom Jackie, Bar Mitzvah boy Jordan and dad Lee. The photographer for this event was Angelica Glass. A complete list of vendors follows at the end of this spotlight.

Bar Mitzvah Service

Ice Ice Baby

Special Touches

Mitzvah Advice

“I wasn’t sure if I really needed a planner as I enjoy the planning process myself and the venue came with a planner,” says Mitzvah Mom Jackie. “But I’m thrilled that I did decide to hire my own planner, especially when it got closer to the event. She helped with so many crazy details (timeline, tipping, transportation etc…) that I hadn’t realized would make the last few weeks so incredibly busy. I was able to relax the day of the party knowing she was there and not worry about a thing!”

Mitzvah Project

Jordan sold snacks at his synagogue each week before Hebrew school. He donated the proceeds to the ASPCA as he loves animals. The family has a dog and two cats of their own.

Vendor Directory

Venue/Decor: LIFE the place to be, 914-591-4400
Event Planner/T-Shirts/Drawstring Bags: Stacey Nisenson, Full On Events, 973-800-2619
Entertainment: Total Entertainment, 201-894-0055
Photographer: Angelica Glass, 917-741-4160
Videographer: Giulianna Marie Studios, 973-835-4300
Favors: iSlide Customizable Slides, 781-352-0677
Invitations: Etched in Sloane, Sloane Zane, 201-848-6006
Sign-In Board: ShotsOnGoalHockeyFrames.com
Cake: Jordan’s Grandma, Carol David, 815-212-2204
Dresses: Roland Mouret (Mom), Zoe Ltd. (Sister), All About the Dress, 914-690-1593
Suits: Rothmans (Dad), Lubin’s (Jordan), 914-713-0300
Hair/Makeup: Rita Devlin Wolf (hair), 914-588-5471 and Valerie Guglielmo (makeup), 914-320-0944
Transportation: Country Coach Corp., 914-967-5959