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Mom To Mom Advice – Bar Bat Mitzvah Gift Question –

Question – I don’t want to give the Bar Bat Mitzvah child a check. Besides money, what are some other gift suggestions?


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14 Responses to “Mom To Mom Advice – Bar Bat Mitzvah Gift Question –”

  1. Elizabeth says:

    My best friend’s daughter received a beautifully painted portrait of the bat mitzvah girl! The woman who painted in specializes in formal portraits and does paintings of children during all these coming of age ceremonies. It was beautiful and very unique! The painters name was Laurel Stern Boeck. It was such a beautiful painting! The artist even made postcards with my friend’s daughters portrait on them!

  2. Lauren says:

    We gave our nephew a camera he wanted. He was thrilled to receive it!

  3. Sheri says:

    My daughter was given this album with her invitation painted on the outside and a personal message on the inside. The box is from Lexington Studios and now holds all the cards she received from her Bat Mitzvah along with other keepsakes. I thought this was a great gift!

  4. Tammy says:

    My daughter received the Helen Ficalora initial necklace and loved it. Since then I have given that as a gift a number of time and it’s always well received. For boy you can always do a nice watch.

  5. Dawn says:

    My daughter received a bunch of Visa and Amex gift cards. She loved them because she was able to go use them to go shopping with her friends and get what she wanted.

  6. Lisa says:

    My daughter’s favorite gift was a gold initial necklace! If there is an expensive item that the child may want, why not chip in with others!

  7. Wendy says:

    My son received a watch that he loved! Definitely his favorite gift.

  8. Susan says:

    My daughter recently received the Tiffany Twist Knot Earrings for her Bat Mitzvah. She loves them, they were by far her favorite present!!

  9. Michelle says:

    My daughter’s favorite gift was a Kindle with a gift card to Barnes & Noble.

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